Don't Forget Us

Many of you who read our posts might know how difficult it is for our family to go out and do certain activities.  Maybe you've read some of our stories about being out and about and how those outings just didn't go well.  Or maybe you've heard us mention how we want to try an activity, but we know that it won't work for us.  Because some things are too overwhelming for Charlie.  Places can be really loud or have way too many people which can easily send Charlie into a meltdown.  And when that happens, we're pretty much done.

But I'm sure you've heard us also say that we aren't giving up.  We continue to go out and do different activities as much as possible.  We keep trying new things because we know that in order for Charlie to be successful in life, all of our boys for that matter, he will need to know how to handle different situations.  He'll need to learn how to use his coping skills.  And he'll need to learn how to push himself.

Just like any other family, we like to feel connected to our community.  We like to feel connected to our family and friends.  Some of our outings are harder than others and we may have a few more challenges than others, but don't forget us.  We still like to be involved in things.  Over the years we've noticed invitations to do things with others have gradually declined.  We're not sure if it's because people know it's difficult for us to get out sometimes, or maybe they're not sure how to help when they're out and about with us and we need to deal with a meltdown?  Either way, we still want to be included.  

Yes, we come with a big dog nowadays, but if you take the time to get to know Sunny, you'll see she's the sweetest thing ever.  She's really quite unobtrusive- most of the time people don't even know she's there.  She doesn't chew on your rug, she doesn't bark, but she might give you the biggest puppy dog eyes you've ever seen.  Plus, she's part of Charlie.  And if you love Charlie, you love all of him.  Also, ask questions to better understand.  Invite us to that gathering at the park, or invite Tyler and I out for dinner or a night out.  If we decline, ask again next time.